Sucky Parent(s)
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Sucky Parent(s)
I don't mean the kinds who won't let you go to a concert or something like that. Who here has (a) parent(s) that just downright suck(s)? Whether it be that they play favourites with your siblings, pay no attention to you whatsoever or just make you feel like plain ol' crap on a daily basis.
How do you cope with it? Does it affect your lives at school/work? How are your relationships with both parents?
Discuss.
How do you cope with it? Does it affect your lives at school/work? How are your relationships with both parents?
Discuss.
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My relationship with my mother is REALLY complicated. She's violent, she puts me down and compares me all the time to people in our family because I'm not like them. She also screwed up my life since I was 11 years old, when she almost choked me to death. She gets emotionally abusive all the time, and is a really hard person to live with and anyone in my family can confirm that.
My dad... It's a weird relationship as well. He's worse when drunk, and gets violent then buy apart from that things are okay.
I've never told anyone what my parents were really like, and what I said above is the reason I NEVER bring my friends over. During the day, I just put my life at home on the side at school.
My dad... It's a weird relationship as well. He's worse when drunk, and gets violent then buy apart from that things are okay.
I've never told anyone what my parents were really like, and what I said above is the reason I NEVER bring my friends over. During the day, I just put my life at home on the side at school.
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mum, eh... we argue, and she tells me i'm screwed up mentally, then denies it, saying it's just how i am.
she says she wishes i'd open up more, and i'm scared of telling her a LOT.
she says she wishes i'd open up more, and i'm scared of telling her a LOT.
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I live with my step mum and dad.
I have minimal contact with my mum - she openly favours my younger brother.
My dad is an arse hole most of the time, but I still love him -shrugs-
My step mum is really suportive, she knows most things about me, but I still like to keep things to myself.
I have minimal contact with my mum - she openly favours my younger brother.
My dad is an arse hole most of the time, but I still love him -shrugs-
My step mum is really suportive, she knows most things about me, but I still like to keep things to myself.
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my mother... is totally awesome
my father is totally the opposite.
homophobic, violet, abusive.
Used to chase me around the house trying to either
a) hit me with his belt
b) tear my piercing out
or c) try to kill me.
i just... cant... not love him.
iunno it's complicated.
I hate him, but still. he's my father
my father is totally the opposite.
homophobic, violet, abusive.
Used to chase me around the house trying to either
a) hit me with his belt
b) tear my piercing out
or c) try to kill me.
i just... cant... not love him.
iunno it's complicated.
I hate him, but still. he's my father
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^ Pretty much sums up my parents as well.
I love my mum, she's wonderful and so understanding. I love just talking to her and she loves taking me shopping
I love mum so so much, she has to put up with so much shit *sigh*
My dad is an asshole.
He's abusive and has bizarre mood swings.
Ever since I was little he's been horrible to my mum, my siblings and I.
He's physically and verbally abusive and has cheated on my mum.
Thankfully he works A LOT so I only have to see him at night sometimes and on the weekends.
Also he goes overseas alot so sometimes we get over a month of freedom.
I love my mum, she's wonderful and so understanding. I love just talking to her and she loves taking me shopping
I love mum so so much, she has to put up with so much shit *sigh*
My dad is an asshole.
He's abusive and has bizarre mood swings.
Ever since I was little he's been horrible to my mum, my siblings and I.
He's physically and verbally abusive and has cheated on my mum.
Thankfully he works A LOT so I only have to see him at night sometimes and on the weekends.
Also he goes overseas alot so sometimes we get over a month of freedom.
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My mother's complicated. Really.
Just... sometimes I hate her, sometimes I just don't. I disrespect with her, sometimes she's okay with it, sometimes she isn't. The worse part is that she wants me to be her best friend. T_T
But father... fucking ugh. I hate him. Period. i have to pretend I do for my mother, but I hate him to pieces. There's nothing wrong with him aside from the fact that he constantly breaks my mother's heart and that he's so damn close-minded.
Just... sometimes I hate her, sometimes I just don't. I disrespect with her, sometimes she's okay with it, sometimes she isn't. The worse part is that she wants me to be her best friend. T_T
But father... fucking ugh. I hate him. Period. i have to pretend I do for my mother, but I hate him to pieces. There's nothing wrong with him aside from the fact that he constantly breaks my mother's heart and that he's so damn close-minded.
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Both of my parents fail, both drunks.
But dad doasnt really get things, he dosent really bother anymore since i got kicked out of South Freo, well really he stopped caring in garde 7. At my graduation.
Mum, well shes my mum. What can i say.
What kind of parent tells thier child that they preffer the other child, that your a screw up and is just there to make "the family" look bad, and that they shouldnt of had you since they already miscarridged before you.
I wont post anything else. Im just, i just dont wont to.
But i find that they have an amazing talent of turing a switch when i have people over that makes them seem all okay.
But dad doasnt really get things, he dosent really bother anymore since i got kicked out of South Freo, well really he stopped caring in garde 7. At my graduation.
Mum, well shes my mum. What can i say.
What kind of parent tells thier child that they preffer the other child, that your a screw up and is just there to make "the family" look bad, and that they shouldnt of had you since they already miscarridged before you.
I wont post anything else. Im just, i just dont wont to.
But i find that they have an amazing talent of turing a switch when i have people over that makes them seem all okay.
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Private Cupcake. wrote:
But i find that they have an amazing talent of turing a switch when i have people over that makes them seem all okay.
It's interesting that you say that Nicole. I'm a master with fake parents, I have realized their fakeness.
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Anyway, I'm quite the pro with shit parents.
Seeing as my dad is incredibley abusive, and has sent me to hospital around three times. Because he beat me dead. My dad has a terrible temper, and gets pissed off at the drop of a hat. He chucks tantrums ect.
My mother is half as bad. People think she's great but she's not.
My parents also let my brother beat me up. And I mean he actually beats me, punches full force.. ect.
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Both of my parents are fucking awesome.
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Yeah...completely inappropriate...sorry.
-sigh-
Although yes my parent is fairly lenient with things and stuff and is fairly ok. Although mother's trust in me is fatally low atm.
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but the admin were actually letting you post what you posted
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My dad actually... yeah, he pretty much sucks.
Before he divorced my mum, he cheated on her 2465284935 times, physically and emotionally and psychologically abused her, tried to kill her and just... fuck, the fact that he left her a month after I was born.
The relationship between my parents isn't all that great and the fact that my mum has these mental scars, she figures that she can take out all her frustrations and anger out on me when no-one else is around.
Before he divorced my mum, he cheated on her 2465284935 times, physically and emotionally and psychologically abused her, tried to kill her and just... fuck, the fact that he left her a month after I was born.
The relationship between my parents isn't all that great and the fact that my mum has these mental scars, she figures that she can take out all her frustrations and anger out on me when no-one else is around.
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I have a really weird relationship with my mother. It's like there're two sides of her. Either I love her one hell of a lot or I fucking hate her guts, there's no happy medium. She knows just the right things to say -- to make you feel on top of the world or tear you apart -- and I guess that's a factor. She can be so fucking vicious sometimes.
I think... I've never told anyone this, but I think maybe she played a little bit of a role in my hating myself. She told (TELLS) me that I'm useless, I'm not worth it, she doesn't know why she puts up with me, I get stupider the older I get, etc. I actually never knew that it wasn't the norm for parents to swear at their kids, and when I told my friends some of the things she calls me when she gets into one of her rages, they were horrified, so I don't really think I'd like to repeat them here.
I'm terrified of her when she gets really mad. As in, shakingcryingcoldallover terrified. She has this crazy fucking temper, and it doesn't take a lot to set it off. Sometimes it's like walking on eggshells around her.
I don't talk to my dad much, he's at work a lot. My parents don't get along, so he stays there as long as he can. He doesn't seem to know me at all, and it's quite sad every time he tries to strike up a conversation. He says all the wrong things, and I just don't want to talk, and it all gets so awkward I want to run out of the room. He... I mean, I love him, he can be really sweet, but sometimes I'd rather he just left me alone.
I think... I've never told anyone this, but I think maybe she played a little bit of a role in my hating myself. She told (TELLS) me that I'm useless, I'm not worth it, she doesn't know why she puts up with me, I get stupider the older I get, etc. I actually never knew that it wasn't the norm for parents to swear at their kids, and when I told my friends some of the things she calls me when she gets into one of her rages, they were horrified, so I don't really think I'd like to repeat them here.
I'm terrified of her when she gets really mad. As in, shakingcryingcoldallover terrified. She has this crazy fucking temper, and it doesn't take a lot to set it off. Sometimes it's like walking on eggshells around her.
I don't talk to my dad much, he's at work a lot. My parents don't get along, so he stays there as long as he can. He doesn't seem to know me at all, and it's quite sad every time he tries to strike up a conversation. He says all the wrong things, and I just don't want to talk, and it all gets so awkward I want to run out of the room. He... I mean, I love him, he can be really sweet, but sometimes I'd rather he just left me alone.
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